How To Get Your Ex To Miss You - This Way!

If you find yourself constantly reliving the nostalgia of new love then being confronted by the reality that your relationship came to an end, it's not too late to get it back. No relationship stays in the "new-love" phase indefinitely. Relationships grow and evolve - and sometimes that means that the romance takes a backseat to the pressures of everyday life. All you want is to get your relationship back - and there are ways of making that dream a reality if you buckle down and decide to get to work the right way. You can't afford to just throw a deck of possibility cards into the air hoping that one will stick. You need to act decisively, not impulsively - and that means using your shared past to a mutual advantage and striving towards a more positive future.

The Secret to Missing Someone

It's obvious, really. Think about the people you surround yourself with. Your family, your friends, and your old college roommate - it's all about the people that really matter; the people you can depend on when you need them. Out of all the people in your life, who do you miss the most? Do you miss your coworker in the next cubicle that you spend 9 hours avoiding every day? Of course you don't. You miss the people that aren't a part of your daily reality - the people that you don't get to see as often as you'd like. The truth of the matter is that you can't miss someone unless there's some distance between you - and that is exemplified when it comes to an ex.

There are no magic words that can reverse a breakup in its tracks and get your ex back in your life. This is no easy fix, and there's no catch-all solution to mending broken ties and broken bonds. The key to making an ex miss you is to give them some distance so they have a chance to realize it. If you're constantly texting, calling or emailing, you're never giving them the opportunity.

Missing the Version of You they Fell For

It's not enough for your ex to simply miss you. Ideally, you want them to miss the person that they initially fell in love with. People change over time, it's simply a natural occurrence. Unfortunately, not all changes are positive. After the beginning phases of a relationship start to fade into every-day life, people become comfortable with their partner. They stop trying so hard to hide their less-positive qualities and the real them starts to come out.

While you should never change simply to please anyone else - even an ex - addressing your core issues can come in handy here. Some self-reflection can definitively work in your favor and win you some major points with your ex. If you're not positive that they're paying attention, take a deep breath. They are.

Use Positive Memory to Your Advantage

If the good old days seem like a pleasant but distant memory, you can bring them back to life. Your focus now should not just be on bringing things back to their past state - you want to make them better than ever, and that fairytale romance is within your grasp. You want to remind your ex of the way things used to be - but let them know that this doesn't necessarily mean going backwards to the past. There's a chance for a real, positive future between the two of you, and it's something that you value more than just a quick fix.

Life right now is a balancing act. You can't be too pushy but you can't be too laid-back either. You have to know what to say - and how to say it. You have to use every tool you possess to your advantage, but it's not as difficult as it sounds on paper. It's simply a matter of looking past what you hope to accomplish and understanding the position that your ex is in as well.

Time is a valuable asset and you don't have an endless supply. Waiting for the leaves to change is not going to turn things around in your favor - if you want to get your ex back, you need to act. Make sure that you're not simply acting on gut-feeling - know that you have a real basis for your choices, and you're using your brain to your advantage. When you do reconnect with your ex, make sure that it's not because of a strange twist of fate. You don't want to leave your future up to chance.

What To Do Next

Being dumped is never something that is easy to get over, the pain that comes with it is always real. Those who say "move on" or "get over it" have either never been on the receiving end of a break up or they are suppressing how it affected them. Knowledge is key, the more knowledge you can acquire about how to reverse the situation you find yourself in the better your position will be.

Two very important areas where you should gain knowledge are: break up mistakes and knowing how to manage contact with your ex. Arming yourself with knowledge is half the battle. Once you know what you are doing it will be a lot easier to achieve your ultimate goal - getting your ex back into your life and restarting your relationship.

Source: http://www.streetarticles.com/reconnecting/how-to-get-your-ex-to-miss-you-this-way

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For Romney, Obama, a final jobs report fuels race

COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) ? In the final throes of a spirited campaign, President Barack Obama and rival Mitt Romney are awaiting one more measure of the nation's economic pulse ? a monthly jobs report that will leave an imprint on the last four frenetic days of the presidential contest.

The Labor Department announces new hiring numbers and the October unemployment rate Friday morning, a fitting end to a nail-biting political match dominated by the economy.

That data fresh in hand, both candidates are plunging into a hectic pace of campaigning Friday, with Obama eager to fend off Romney in the key battleground of Ohio even as Romney pushed to expand the contest to other states, most notably Pennsylvania, to secure the 270 electoral votes needed to win.

Last month's report showed unemployment dropping to 7.8 percent, the first dip below 8 percent in Obama's presidency. However, the last incumbent president to face a jobless rate as high as 7.8 percent in October of an election year was Gerald Ford in his losing campaign against Jimmy Carter in 1976.

Whatever the number, it will give either Romney or Obama a data point with which to make a concluding case for or against the policies of the last four years. Still, the reports alone are unlikely to sway voters. Few if any remain undecided and they have shown throughout the year not to be susceptible to positive or negative monthly changes in the unemployment rate.

What's more, Friday's report will come amid other signs that the economy is on the mend. Most important, consumer confidence is up to its highest level since February of 2008, according to the Conference Board. Other signposts this week showed auto companies with sales gains in October and increases in factory orders and production.

"We're not where we all want to end up, but we are making serious important progress moving forward," Obama senior campaign adviser Robert Gibbs said on "CBS This Morning."

Ohio loomed large on the campaign calendar Friday, with Obama scheduling three stops in that crucial battleground. He also had larger rallies in more urban areas planned for the weekend. Romney was set to hold two rallies in Ohio ? the second a large evening kickoff for the final weekend of campaigning.

But while Ohio was emerging as the most contested state in the final push to Election Day, Romney and the Republican Party were launching a new drive into Pennsylvania, a state that had been considered safely in Obama's column. Romney planned to campaign in the state Sunday and the Republican National Committee was putting $3 million in ads into the state.

Romney aides said they detected that Obama was underperforming in the southeastern counties around Philadelphia, a usual Democratic stronghold, and in the working class area in and around Scranton. Obama won the state handily in 2008, largely on the strength of his performance in the eastern part of the state. The RNC, however, says its voter outreach program has already exceeded its performance four years ago, with three times more phone calls and 19 more door knocks than at this time in 2008.

Obama aides dismissed the eleventh-hour move as an act of desperation that underscored Romney's weakness in other battlegrounds but said the Democratic campaign would increase its ad purchases in the state to respond to the RNC incursion.

"It means the Romney-Ryan campaign is desperate to try to figure out how to win this race outside of the states that they've been contesting it in for 15 months," Gibbs said. "Look, John McCain spent the last weekend in 2008 in Pennsylvania in a desperate attempt to do this as well."

Obama planned to take Romney on directly in Ohio on Friday over the Republican's new ads on the auto industry bailout, campaign aides said. The ads accuse Obama of taking General Motors and Chrysler into bankruptcy, selling Chrysler to an Italian company and building Jeeps in China. Chrysler and GM have protested the ads and disputed the suggestion that Jeep construction was being transferred overseas.

Vice President Joe Biden has reacted sharply to the ads, calling them "one of the most flagrantly dishonest ads I can ever remember in my political career." But Obama has yet to weigh in directly, in part because much of his week was dominated by managing the federal response to Superstorm Sandy.

Amid all the signs of escalation, there were also signs that Election Day was nigh.

Outside the White House, workers were erecting fencing on Pennsylvania Avenue, setting the groundwork for building the inaugural viewing stand and the camera platform in nearby Lafayette Park.

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Associated Press writers Ken Thomas in Columbus and Steve Peoples and Kasie Hunt in Norfolk, Va., contributed to this report.

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/romney-obama-final-jobs-report-fuels-race-114504258--election.html

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Kristen Stewart, Robert Pattinson Explain: What Were Those Halloween Costumes?

'It was a $3 mask from a 7-Eleven,' Pattinson tells us during 'MTV First: Breaking Dawn - Part 2.'
By Kara Warner, with reporting by Josh Horowitz

Robert Pattinson And Kristen Stewart during "MTV First: The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn - Part 2"
Photo: MTV News

Source: http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1696622/kristen-stewart-robert-pattinson-halloween-breaking-dawn-mtv-first.jhtml

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Rihanna: Topless on Twitter!

Source: http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2012/11/rihanna-topless-on-twitter/

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New life for mobile marketing | IT-Online

The uptake of smartphone technology in South Africa has supported the unprecedented growth of mobile and digital communication in the country. Brainstorm Mobile Solutions SA, a specialist in mobile and digital integrated communications, launched in South Africa on 1 November 2012 and is poised to assist South African companies connect their brands with their customers.

?Brainstorm Mobile Solutions in the UK has provided intelligent mobile and digital solutions across a variety of sectors such as mobile operators, banking institutions, media agencies and broadcast media in the United Kingdom, North America, Australia, South Africa, Tanzania and Kenya since 1994,? comments Jaco Coetzee, MD of Brainstorm Mobile Solutions SA.

Excerpts from the 2011All Media Products Survey (AMPS) as featured on the Mobile Marketing Association of South Africa?s website reveals that in South Africa today there are twice as many cell phones as television sets, there are 4.8 times more households with a cell phone than a computer; 53% of e-mails are sent and received from a cell phone and SMS text messaging is used by 3.5 times more people than e-mail.

?The sheer numbers and opportunities for growth in this country are the factors that have prompted Brainstorm Mobile Solutions to grow its African footprint,? continues Coetzee.

?Gartner predicts that by 2014 location-based service subscriber numbers will have increased to 1.4 billion,? adds Coetzee. ?It is difficult to ascertain how many of these subscribers will be South African, but the numbers will be substantial and the supply of location-based services is an area of focus for us going forward.?

Whilst the brand is new to the South African market, Brainstorm Mobile Solutions in the UK has remained at the forefront of mobile and digital trends, developments and legislative requirementsand has to date provided services to leading organisations such as O?, Telefonica, Bank of America, Aer Lingus, Toshiba, Samsung,Mail & Guardian, Tesco Mobile, Travelex, Experian, M&C Saatchi, Insure and Go, Halfords, as well as many others. The knowledge and experience that

has been gained can be effectively applied to the South African market.

?The Brainstorm Mobile Solutions SA development and support team is able to offer South African customers extensive experience and knowledge and this is backed up by the UK based development and support team that has been instrumental in establishing Brainstorm Mobile Solutions? successful international track record,? adds Coetzee.

Brainstorm Mobile Solutions? operating system, Dragon, is a unified platform with multi-channel and data optimisation capabilities thatis constantly upgraded to meet customer demands and industry trends. As a robust and scalable solution, it is able to handle small interactive campaigns up to enterprise leveldata processing services.

?Dragon is able to stand alone, yet integrates seamlessly with other platforms,? continues Coetzee ?and is familiar to our markets as it has been directly integrated in several South African mobile networks already.?

?If history is any sort of barometer, the anticipated growth of mobile and digital communication users in the foreseeable future will be significant and Brainstorm Mobile Solutions SA is geared up to play a pivotal role in the evolving development of these technologies, trends and methodologies in this country, drawing on our global experience and best practices,? Coetzee says.

Source: http://www.it-online.co.za/2012/11/02/new-life-for-mobile-marketing/

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Rebels shown killing captured Syrian troops

BEIRUT (AP) ? A new video appears to show Syrian rebels killing a group of captured soldiers, drawing condemnations from human rights groups who warned on Friday that the gunmen may have committed a war crime.

An anti-regime activist organization said the killings took place near the northern town Saraqeb, which has been the scene in past weeks of heavy fighting between rebels and forces of President Bashar Assad's regime.

Human rights groups said they were trying to confirm the video's authenticity. The footage was consistent with other Associated Press reporting in the area. The video is dated Thursday, a day when the Observatory reported heavy attacks by rebels on regime checkpoints at Saraqeb.

The video shows rebels bearing and kicking a group of captured soldiers, some of the apparently wounded. The soliders are not bound or blindfolded. The rebels then shoot them to death. The exact number of soldiers in the video not clear, but appears to be around 10.

London-based Amnesty International called the video "shocking" and said it may depict a "potential war crime in progress."

A spokesman for the U.N. High Commissioner for Human Rights said it was examining the video.

"The allegations are that these were soldiers who were no longer combatants and therefore, at this point, it looks very like a war crime. Another one," the spokesman, Rupert Colville, told reporters in Geneva. "Unfortunately this could be the latest in a string of documented summary executions by opposition factions as well as by government forces and groups affiliated with them, such as the (pro-government) shabiha" militia.

"The people committing these crimes should be under no illusion that they will escape accountability, because there is a lot of accumulated evidence, perhaps including this video," he said.

On Friday, the Observatory condemned the killing of nearly a dozen soldiers at the Hmeisho checkpoint. Amnesty released a highly critical statement.

Rami Abdul-Rahman, who heads the Observatory, asked how rebels can demand rights at a time when they violate such rights.

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Associated Press writer John Heilprin in Geneva contributed to this report.

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/rebels-shown-killing-captured-syrian-troops-113303080.html

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HBT: MLB, MLBPA donate $1 million to Sandy relief

Yesterday the Yankees pledged $500,000 to aid in Sandy relief.

A few minutes ago Major League Baseball and the Major League Baseball Players Association announced that they are going to join together to donate $1 million to the American Red Cross, the Salvation Army and Feeding America to assist emergency relief efforts in the most devastated areas along the East Coast affected by Superstorm Sandy.

Commissioner Selig?s statement:

??As our thoughts and prayers remain with all those who have been impacted by this tragedy, it is a privilege for Major League Baseball to support our fans and their communities during this urgent time of need. All of us at Major League Baseball are grateful to our society?s leaders, first responders and volunteers, and we hope that our contribution to these humanitarian organizations will assist in the vital relief efforts along the East Coast.?This is a time when the resiliency of the great American spirit will prevail.?

Michael Weiner?s statement:

?Natural disasters know no boundaries, and this one was a direct hit that affected many in the MLBPA?s office personally. On behalf of the MLBPA and its members, we are honored to join with the Commissioner?s Office in making this contribution to support the efforts of organizations working around the clock to help provide various forms of relief and assistance to those suffering in the aftermath of the storm, including many of our friends and neighbors in need.?

Additionally, MLB will work closely with teams and broadcast partners to encourage baseball fans to support the Red Cross via public service announcements, programming mentions and editorial coverage on MLB Network and MLB.com.

More information can be obtained at MLBCommunity.org

Source: http://hardballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/11/02/mlb-mlbpa-to-donate-1-million-for-sandy-relief/related/

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